Three kids. A demanding architect role. No partner to hand off to when both worlds collide.
There's no playbook for single parenting while building software. But after years of figuring it out, I've learned the difference between explanations and excuses, why physical setup matters more than you'd think, and what to do when a five-year-old interrupts mid-code.
It's not elegant. It's not optimized. But most days, it works.
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